Welcome to The Road Unpaved – About Me

IMG_5184Hello friends, this about my life journey . . . so far.

My name is Rachael Goldring and this isn’t your average health blog.  Twenty-three years ago I was born and I guess that’s when this story of mine began! Congenital heart disease runs in my family on my moms side.  In fact, I had an uncle who passed away in 1962 with my heart defect.  Five years went by and my Grandma had another baby that was born with a congenital heart defect.  He survived because his heart defect was less severe.  Also, technology had improved enough during that period to really give my uncle a boost.

With the next generation, came me.  I was born with a severe congenital heart defect called Pulmonary Atresia.  I was 9 months old before my surgeon performed the first stage correction of my disease.  He had to as I was getting worse. I was born with several variation of defects which resulted in only one functioning lung.  Now, this isn’t the end our family history. My uncle (see above) and my aunt had a baby who has the same defect as me but he thankfully has a less severe form and two functioning lungs.  He is quite the soccer player.

Okay, back to me.  Of course I was always the “sick” child growing up.  But I really thought that when I grew up I wouldn’t be sick. I know that sounds weird.  I didn’t realize that CHD is never cured but palliated.  No matter, although my CHD was bad, I’ve tried to make sure it didn’t dictate my life.  If I only had CHD, I would be able to live a relatively normal life. What dictates my life now are all the secondary diseases and complications I developed. You already know about my one lung, but I also have a disease called pulmonary hypertension, which results from continuous high blood pressure to the pulmonary vasculature.

When I was 18, I was sicker than I have
ever been. All of my tests were coming out normal which drove me crazy. I was told that it was all in my head and I was fine. We did test after test with many doctors.  Over time, I had the sense that no one believed me and I thought I would die. I slept 20 hours a day and could barely walk to my bathroom which was in my room. Finally, one of my dad’s best friends, who is an anesthesiologist Valley Childrens Hospital in Central California, took my dad aside and said we should test my immune system.

Weird, huh?  As a child, I was sick every six weeks with bronchitis. He then suggested I get my IGG levels checked and BAM – my numbers were extremely low. I remember the morning I went to see this new immunologist and he reviewed my medical history and took one look at me and said, “I am surprised you’ve survived this long!” Not something you want to ever hear from anyone let alone a doctor. He then went on to confirm I wasn’t crazy and had something else wrong with me….I have CVID! CVID is short for common variable immunodeficiency. I now get IVIG infusions for my CVID at least once or twice a month.

After my CVID diagnosis, I thought okay, I am finally in the clear and have my whole future ahead of me. I was accepted into Fresno State University and I even moved into the dorms.  My immunologist required that it be a single. I was okay right? I’m 18, a college student and I even rushed and accepted into the Delta Gamma sorority, I was on top of the world. Of course, my health had a different plan.

I have always had bad migraines, but in December of my Freshman year, I had a severe one that caused “stroke” like symptoms. I suffered severe aphasia, numbing, loss of hearing and fear. I ended up being diagnosed with confusional migraine which mimics stroke symptoms. This was only two weeks before finals and I could barely write the word “the.” I ended up taking a medical leave from Fresno State because I couldn’t get the disability assistance  I needed. Which is what started me thinking of others like me.

How many chronically sick people hear this, “but you look so healthy!” Just because you cannot see my disability, it doesn’t mean I am not.  That’s why its called an invisible disease. Following my first stroke like migraine, my symptoms grew worse and ended up being transferred to UCLA for a lung transplant evaluation. Thank goodness, I don’t need one right now. I transferred all of my care to UCLA, because they pioneered the first Adult Congenital heart disease program on the West Coast. Sadly, things didn’t end there.  I ended up having non-epileptic seizures with postictal symptoms. I ended up in the adult neurotrauma ICU where they had no clue what was going on….So once again I felt crazy. It turned out to be another manifestation of confusional migraine. With these migraines, you have a variety of symptom, such as; hearing noises and debilitating nerve pain. Once we got my migraines under control (Thanks to UCLA neurology), we started to focus on my recurrent lung infections.

Around this time, I applied to and was accepted into Arizona State University.  They allow hybrid programs that include both online and in class options.  I have completed three semester on and off due to illnesses and am currently on leave.  I hope to begin again Fall, 2016.  Back to my medical history.

My lung diseases include pulmonary hypertension and COPD (structural, not acquired and no, I’ve never smoked).  But in reality, no one truly knows exactly what my lung disease is as it crosses multiple diagnosis.  Since the doctors don’t have a clear diagnosis or a treatment plan, they decided that every time I get sick, I needed a burst of Prednisone, other steroids and antibiotics.  This is where my next leg of the journey started. I was in and out of UCLA due to my infections and it wasn’t getting better. On January 1, 2014, I went to Valley Childrens because I was having a very hard time breathing. I begged them not to give me any steroids because I had just finished a long course and I felt little relief, why would they magically work now? Well, after consulting with UCLA, they thought they knew my body better than me and this is when my life changed forever! I was rushed to the ICU after i had an echocardiogram and saw that my pressures which are normally 50-60% systemic to 90% plus of systemic. They pumped me hard with steroids and we thought it would be best to be transferred to Stanford because UCLA’s treatments failed.  We were hoping we’d get a different diagnosis and treatment plan…..I gained 60 pounds in 3 weeks. I am 5’1 and my weight ranged between 98-115lbs. my whole life. I had to hold my skin together so it would break and bleed. This was painful. I spent a month in the CVICU at Stanford and it took 8 months to taper completely off the steroids. I had severe Cushing’s Syndrome.

Its taken me 2 years to mostly shed my steroid weight . . . but it continues. I KNOW MY BODY BETTER THAN ANYONE! A month before my 22nd birthday, I noticed a small change and felt that something big with my health is coming . . . I was right, I had a severe gut infection that was finally diagnosed in December.  I  went August to December before treatment. If I hadn’t gone to the hospital when I did, I would have died in a couple days. I have refractory C-diff and still have it after a year and a half. My body isn’t normal and that’s why treating me is so complex.

My pain medicine for this awful infection is IV Benadryl. We don’t know why but it helps. I hate narcotics! I was so sick that I ended up needing a TON of fentanyl while in the ICU’s at Valley Children’s and Packard Children’s.  It took me almost 4 months to fully taper from fentanyl.  Since that time, I’ve refused all narcotics.

This past January (2016), I was admitted to Valley Children’s, again, for difficulty breathing.  This time, only parainfluenza – which I received on a plane from a coughing child whose parents allowed this ill child to travel while actively infected and coughing.  I’ll cover this chronic issue in a later blog.  I was admitted to the PICU for oxygen support and the parainfluenza resolved in four days, a record for me. HOWEVER, on the day of discharge, my admission blood cultures came back and I had a severe life-threatening fungal infection.  Since I have a central line, I had a complication called a CLABSI or central line associated blood stream infection.  This required immediate surgery for removal of my central line, insertion of PICC line and a six week course of anti-fungal IV therapy.

I lost myself at this point. I had NO confidence that I would live and fight this off. I am still here. Now the hard part starts, I suffer from PTSD due to the past four years. I recognize that we, meaning the congenital chronically ill patients need a bigger voice. I feel as if I’m waking up from a four year long coma and now have been thrown back into society. I want to tell my story so maybe others don’t suffer the medical mistakes I have endured. I want to speak out and tell my story and guide physicians, nurses and hospital administrators how to treat and how to talk to us as complex adult patients. I might be 23, but my diseases are not adult diseases. I will forever be affiliated with a children’s hospital due to the origins of my diseases.

EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON and I believe that I’ve survived for a reason and my reason is to help other adult complex congenital patients. We are not alone! I am Rachael and I have spent my entire life fighting and if I can help/inspire just one other person, my journey will be worth it. Don’t give up, I have wanted too many times.  But, I know that if I do, then everything would have been for nothing.

My body is calming down (for now) and I am now dealing with PTSD and anxiety. PTSD is now documented in most chronic severe patients (It was documented last month in a study that is a first of its kind for CHD.)  I hope this blog will speak to you, whether you are sick, have a family member who is sick, passed away, or just someone who wants to help others like me.

Thank you for reading, this will be a Blog about my health and struggles. By following me, maybe we can help each other or those with friends or family facing similar trials.

11 thoughts on “Welcome to The Road Unpaved – About Me”

  1. Love you Rachael! You have been the main support pillar of our families CHD journey from the very day Moose walked into your life! Thank you for sharing your story so more people can understand what it is to really be ill. I can’t tell you how many people don’t believe that Kyle is not nor will he ever be “cured”.

  2. So beautifully presented Sweetheart. Your story,”Unpaved Road”
    is a treasure for everyone, but especially for those who have been with you for 23 years. Love You,Grama

  3. Thank you for sharing your harrowing health challenges! Your road traveled has been incredible! Reaching out and sharing your story is so inspirational and enlightening !

  4. Thank you for sharing beautiful girl . I thank you for being so brave and pray that you fight and I hope everyone listens to you ,only you know your body and what I just read you are the expert at knowing who you are inside and out . I hope to share with Katelynn she doesn’t have half the issues but a lot heart , glucose intolerant , stomach issues, PTSD and headaches and now restless leg she hates dr.s because no one listens but she too said I don’t feel right but of course dr disregards her and says all in her head . It’s hard being the parent and watching your child be sick I would trade my life any day for her .its harder watching her not want to get dr treatment because they don’t believe her . She is now 19 and in her first year of college in Clovis some classes on campus and some on line . I thank you Rachel for sharing you are making a difference . I look forward to reading your blog again soon .

  5. Hi Rachael. Thank you so much for sharing your personal journey. Even though we have different medical issues, there’s so much that we do share. Limitations, the battle of to get docs to listen and PTSD. I’m so sorry for what you had/have to go through, but am comforted knowing I’m not alone in this battle. I’m so glad you started this blog. I know you have and will continue to help and inspire others.

    Lori

  6. I love your candor and your truth, Rachel. Thank you for sharing your story, it allows people not quite as strong as you, to have that voice, that support and the encouragement to keep moving forward. You are precious to me and to Taylor, my mom, Julie…yes, you are here for a reason.

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